I'm listening to ayumi's Seasons, which is an old fav of mine. And makes me to wonder am I one? haha..
Anyway was reading the new paper a few days back, didnt had the energy to blog. I read an article on married women going on sexual escapades secretly, and reading that really like wtf, although I mean it has been happening around and its no big deal. If any of my female friends reading this thinks its no big deal pls let me knw =D.
Anyway just makes you question the morality of the society as it progresses. And men cheating on their wives is already sad enough, now the opp is taking place!!! Maybe the kids shld start some also right. This are the actually the young and hip ladies thinking that sleeping around is and ok thing to do man! (i mean when your married, I'm totally fine with sleeping around as long as both party enjoy it and no strings attached)
I cant find the article, but shit has it that she said that she loves her husband, she loves her family (not sure whether she have kids yet,) but she sure hell doesnt want to be tied down and wants to have hot steamy sex around. At the end of the day, she still will return to her husband yah.
EEKs. So what is love? Love = marriage? I think it not that simple all along. Marriage is something like a tool for the male to passdown the family line, and the female to make sure that she can be cared for and doesnt worry about fighting for survival. I sure dont mind sleeping around, as long as my partner can support me for the rest of my life and he doesnt know about it. Erks.
Sure is hell that my mind is totally swayed towards singularity. A single positron in the masses of neutrons and electrons. I think I was too native in my previous post that getting a pet might solve some things. Hmm. Now to comtemplate the future from here.
1. I dont mind getting married, if so then divorce is 100% possible and I would be ready for it.
2. I dont mind having an active sex life, with multiple partners, but sure am I not purposely sleeping around for.
3. And hell no married ladies pls. I shld slap them if anyone apporaches me, but then again maybe I cant resist if she's too hot ( ahaha MEN.)
4. What did I hear that I must be joking that I could be sleeping around with women! Haha I also dont know, and I dont have any foreign dna in me, no sharp features and hell not fit and smart and the list goes on. But you never know you know...
I doesnt really know who reads my blogs nowadays. I think female readership is like 0.0000%%. So I dont really give much damn into blogging now. Perhaps the fever has passed, moved on to podcast or wad, but it isnt the fever that I was interested in. Its the staying in contact sort of things. I would have guessed the message I would like to bring across isnt getting read by the relevant parties, so heck lah I wulddnt giv a damn.
Signing off.
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hey dude, while I was anticipating ya elaboration on ya pre-entry, here I found out something more interesting :)
well, I am not sure is that kind of thoughts that in and out of ya mind or ya are really serious about wat ya mentioned. Ya know, all man has that, I do HOPE ya are not serious about it, about wat ya mentioned regarding marriage and sex. I know its common now, its no big deal about ppl having pre marital sex, even sex with other partners out of ya marriage.
well, maybe ya might think a old fashion and conservative person, but to me, that means a GREAT DEAL! Marriage is an expression and commitment of love,
while saying ‘ I do!’ to ya partner means ya are willing and ready to commit ya life to him or her alone and regardless of any situation. saying “I do” means ya are willing to be a witness of his or her life in good time or in bad time, love him/her and take care of him/her with all ya ability. ITS SEROUS! If ya are prepare to divorce, I advice ya DO NOT even think about enter a marriage, if not ya are going to cause great hurt to yaself and others, marriage is not just bout ya, or 2 persons’ business, it involves the families of 2, and more imptly, ya children if ya happen to have any. I am sorry if I sound too harsh but I really detest ppl who take marriage so lightly, cos they have NO idea how much harm they are doing to their kids for ppl who take marriage so lightly.
If getting married is just to have sex, I guess ppl can easily have sex with ppl they don’t know, ya just need to find ppl who are ‘open-minded’ ya can have one night stand all the time, then why bother to be tighted down by another person, with all the responsibilities that come with being a husband and future father? But mind ya, ya are risking ya life in having sex with diff partners for ya chances of getting aids is much higher.
Man, ya don’t know wat ya are talking about if ya are really serous about wat ya mentioned in ya blog, maybe I am over reacting regarding wat ya mentioned, but I really do not hope to see any of my frens make such mistakes in life.
Its totally bullshit for those who have affairs behind their partners back, and say they still love their wives or husbands, they know nuts about love, well, I don’t know a lot about love, but its definitely not lying, cheating our loved ones, hurting them physically, emotionally and being irresponsible them.
Maybe its too early for ya to say that for ya have not really met someone whom ya really love, who treasure ya as who ya are and love ya unconditionally, cos she would mean a world to ya and ya rather hurt yaself than to bring harm to her, maybe ya will have a diff idea towards marriage then ya might be just saying those words for fun, but its impt to have a right mentality towards marriage and sex. Cos its gonna affect ya attitude and ya whole idea of marriage.
Ya know, I believe in preserving myself for someone I really love and willing to commit his life to walk along with me, and I want to give the best of myself to him and love them and take care of him for a life time! And he will be the one and only for me.
Do not pollute ya mind with all that sexual and evil desires like others, things that are common doesn mean they are right to do, the choice is yours.
“Man could do all things, but not all things are beneficial.”
Haha. Anyway, I elaborate on marriage = preparing for divorce.
In that case, there is nothing wrong with the husband, just that the wife lah lah lah.
So how sure do you know your wife wont cheat on you? How much do you know your wife? How confirmed are you such things wont happen? If your getting married, be prepared for a divorce. I dont think anyone out there knows 100% their partner.
that's wat faith all about. we cant be 100% sure about others, we can only make sure we are sure about ourselves, why do i say that, cos sometimes we cant even be 100% sure that we wont cheat on others too.
i didn say such thing like divorce will not happen, but wat i am saying is as long as its within my ability, i will not make it happen. a man steps into a marriage with his lov one thinking that this is going to be a great and forever loving history for both of them and both of them are willing to do their best to preserve it. another man steps into marriage (with no confidence that this marriage can work out or not) preparing at anytime, he will or can divorce the woman beside him, and she will jus become a history in his life, thinking she is just a woman whom he had happened to marry before. between this 2 scenarios, i wont say that 1st one will be 100% happy ending, but the chance is much higher than the 2nd one, the 2nd man has already prepared a alternative or rather excuse for himself to leave his partner if anything happens. marriage of such will never last. the vows at the marriage altar means nothing to him or maybe he doesn truly understand the meaning of saying 'i do'.
marriage requires trust, if ya cant even trust that she would love ya the same way as ya love her or even more and will not do anything funny behind ya back, then spare yaself and her from the slightest chance of getting hurt and going throu the 'painful' process of getting marriage and then to divorce. and why is it always about others not being truful and trustworthy to ya, but never the other way round? ya are a human too, ya make mistakes too, and when ya make them, ya do hope others can forgive ya, dont ya? then be fair to others...
think about it again, ya mentality doesn only affect how ya view ya future partner now, it is affecting how ya look at everyone around ya..
i am sorry if i am offending ya feeling in anyway, but this is wat i see and i want ya to know about it, afterall the decision is yas again, no hard feelings alright :)
*nods head*
I support u a norm, 100%!!!
Anyway chong yew, eh hemm!!!In case u haven't noticed,
I AM female ok? and I am a reader.
So don't go ard making urself seem so pathetic k!!!
Or rather making me seem insignificant *raises an eyebrow*
Anyway, juz to add another point, if cheating is deemed somewhat acceptable for men,I don't see y u shd react so strongly to women cheating. I mean, given tt u urself seemed so inclined to cheat, dun judge others.
C'mon!!Ur practising double standards here, hello??!! Women r liberated too u know?
Of cos, I dun mean it's rite to cheat, juz tt if u exhibit a shocking lack of morality urself, then dun go ard judging others who r like u.
It's very sexist.
:p
wle i very faithful one leh. I think if i have a wife who cheats, I rather commit suicide then divorce.
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